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Supporting Executive Function
Katie Stalter


Helping Students Build the Skills to Succeed

Every day at Miriam School and Learning Center, students are not only learning academics - they’re learning how to learn. That process relies on something called executive function: the brain’s ability to plan, organize, remember information, manage emotions and get things done.

Executive function skills develop throughout childhood and adolescence, but for many students with learning differences, these skills need to be explicitly taught and supported. That’s where Miriam’s specialized approach makes all the difference.

Structure and Predictability

Executive function grows best in an environment that feels safe and consistent. At Miriam, students thrive on structured routines and clear expectations. Visual schedules, daily agendas, and color-coded systems help students stay organized and reduce the stress of uncertainty. When transitions or changes are coming, teachers prepare students in advance - helping them practice flexible thinking and resilience.

Teaching the Skills Behind the Skills

Two Miriam students working together

At most schools, planning, time management, and self-monitoring are assumed to develop naturally. At Miriam, they’re taught directly. Teachers model strategies for breaking big projects into smaller steps, using checklists and graphic organizers, and tracking progress along the way.

Students hear guiding questions like:

  • “What’s your plan?”
  • “How will you know you’re finished?”.

These prompts help children internalize metacognitive thinking—learning to pause, plan, and reflect on their work.

Coaching and Individualized Support

Every student’s brain works differently. That’s why Miriam provides personalized executive function coaching, helping each child discover strategies that fit their strengths and needs.

Students might work on:

  • Using planners and visual reminders
  • Managing time and materials
  • Staying focused through multi-step tasks

Teachers, therapists, and counselors collaborate closely to reinforce these skills across the day - at school, in therapy sessions, and even in social settings.

Emotional Regulation and Self-Awareness

Miriam student working on a world map drawing

Strong executive function depends on emotional balance. Miriam integrates social-emotional learning, mindfulness, and movement breaks to help students build self-regulation.

Staff model co-regulation, helping students calm, refocus, and problem-solve before expecting independent action. Over time, students gain the tools to manage frustration, anxiety, and attention - skills that support both learning and life.

Building Toward Independence

Ultimately, Miriam’s goal is independence. As students gain confidence and competence, supports are gradually reduced. They learn to set goals, monitor progress, and advocate for themselves, preparing for the next steps - whether that’s high school, college, or the workforce.

Executive function isn’t just about remembering homework or staying organized. It’s about building the foundation for lifelong learning, confidence, and self-direction.

And at Miriam, that foundation grows stronger every day.
 

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