Hopefully, we are on a quick thaw from our snowy winter to spring!
Yesterday, at the beginning of our Board Meeting, some children from Rooms One and Two did a fantastic job demonstrating a dancing brain break session for our Trustees. Later, one Trustee said what inspired her was noting the progress of one little girl. Last year, for the Spring Talent Show, that child was so anxious about performing that she cried throughout her performance. Yesterday, she could dance in front of a group of 30 people!
At Miriam, our children are seen for their strengths and possibilities and given tools to reach them. When children struggle with behaviors, they sometimes conclude they are bad people, incapable of doing better. Whether they are seven or seventeen, children will often act like the people they imagine others perceive them to be. It becomes a terrible self-fulfilling prophecy. The thought cycle of a child can become entrenched. "You think I am bad so that I will do bad things." Or sadly, "You think I am unloveable, so I will prove you right."
Many of our children have come from other school environments where they did not have a mechanism to process their negative choices or behaviors. Students who think concretely can confuse the concept of a bad choice in the moment and being a bad person. We believe it is important to be explicit with them about the difference at Miriam. Children must be reminded, especially in those dark moments, that you will always love them unconditionally. They are then offered an opportunity to make things better.
Part of the learning curve, especially for children who struggle to "push their pause button," is realizing that making better choices takes time. Misbehaviors are challenging, and poor decisions may be made repeatedly. Reflecting with your child on the situation and what needs to be rectified is powerful. Your help in assisting them in recognizing that they made a mistake, providing problem-solving steps they can take to improve the situation, and then reflecting on how to avoid the same mistake in the future empowers children. It allows them to feel that they have a locus of control.
Following our Board Meeting yesterday, Mary Cognata and I hosted a group of 15 visitors from Minds Schools in Singapore. These educators, from afar, remarked over and over on the positive behavioral approaches we implement, the positive messaging everywhere (“even the restroom!”), and how it clearly transfers to each child.
Thank you, as always, for your support of Miriam. Together, we are changing the lives of students, day after day.
Wishing you all the best,
Meg Bamford, Head of Miriam School and Learning Center
As we close out the 2024–2025 school year, it’s almost hard to believe how quickly the time has passed. This year has been full of growth, discovery, and meaningful progress—both within our K–12 school and across our ever-expanding outreach programs.
Miriam School and Learning Center is pleased to announce the appointment of five members to the board of directors. These additions will support the nonprofit’s work to empower unique learners, bringing the total number of board members to 22. The board also appointed Darcy Scharff as president-elect, in line to take over the presidency from Kristen Bowser on July 1, 2026.
“This day is about honoring each of [us] - not just for reaching graduation but for the strength, growth and courage it took to get here. We have all overcome obstacles, discovered new abilities and proven that nothing can hold us back when we believe in ourselves.”
As we close out the 2024–2025 school year, it’s almost hard to believe how quickly the time has passed. This year has been full of growth, discovery, and meaningful progress—both within our K–12 school and across our ever-expanding outreach programs.
Since its debut in the 1970s, Dungeons & Dragons (D&D) has captivated generations with its mix of storytelling, strategy and creativity. The game’s ability to adapt to various play styles and preferences has kept it relevant with a wide variety of audiences - including neurodivergent individuals.
Since its debut in the 1970s, Dungeons & Dragons (D&D) has captivated generations with its mix of storytelling, strategy and creativity. The game’s ability to adapt to various play styles and preferences has kept it relevant with a wide variety of audiences - including neurodivergent individuals.
This past Saturday, we gathered for our second annual Minds in Bloom Gala—a truly special evening that brought us together to celebrate our shared mission: transforming the lives of children who learn differently and supporting those who love and care for them.
Thanks to our incredibly generous community, the Second Annual Minds in Bloom Spring Soiree was a huge success! The event, held on Saturday, April 5, at Clayton Plaza Hotel, raised more than $212,000 in total, with $121,308 specifically going to our Fund the Future scholarship fund to help make Miriam more affordable for families who need us.
During the month of February, Miriam High School students studied up on Black history - and engaged in friendly competition with their peers - through a scavenger hunt created by teacher Karen Cross.
Yesterday, at the beginning of our Board Meeting, some children from Rooms One and Two did a fantastic job demonstrating a dancing brain break session for our Trustees. Later, one Trustee said what inspired her was noting the progress of one little girl.
Six Miriam High School students had the opportunity to explore diversity from all angles in late February, attending MICDS’ Student Diversity Conference. The conference, titled “Diversity in Motion: Unity on Every Loop,” was led by students, for students - from MICDS and five other area schools, including Miriam. The schools applied for the opportunity to attend.
On a recent visit to Miriam Lower/Middle School in Webster Groves, Mayor Laura Arnold had the opportunity to see firsthand the positive influence the school has on the community in Webster and beyond, and its dedication to serving unique learners in St. Louis.
On Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day, my daughter Lucy and I had the privilege of visiting the Pearl Harbor National Memorial. We were among hundreds of people from around the world who had gathered to pay our respects and reflect on the sacrifices made for freedom and peace. Standing in that sacred space on a day dedicated to Dr. King’s legacy, during the week of the presidential inauguration, provided a powerful day of reflection.
At Miriam students in grades K-8 explore the forces of magnets not only for science but also as a hands-on way to understand social interactions. Miriam Lower/Middle School Counselor Janene Allen teaches students that depending on their behavior, others might be drawn to you - or they may want to stay away.
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